This Valentine's day I'd like to challenge you to give your significant other a gift that shows how much you value him or her. The gifts suggested here cost very little if any money. They do require that you give something of yourself. You may even be reminded of how you treated your partner when you were courting. Given in a spirit of love, these gifts send a message that you understand and validate his or her needs as a man or woman. You may even want to show the list to your partner and ask which gift would be most appreciated.
Three Gifts to Meet Your Man's Needs for Validation and Appreciation
1- Arrange for him to watch his favorite sporting event without interruptions. Prepare and serve some of his favorite snacks. If you're a fan too, great! Join the fun and watch together. If not, spend some time watching the show with him. Find something of interest to ask questions about during the commercial or break in activity. Or, if there's a local event that relates to one of his interests, purchase tickets and go together.
2- Put on something sexy or an outfit he really likes seeing you in. Men are visual by design and like to see you in something appealing. Don't worry that you don't have a perfect body, he really doesn't care. He does care that you think he's desirable and that you want to entice him and look good for him. Take this a step further and give him a massage. Let it lead to something. Although it may be the male that usually pursues, once in a while he likes for you to initiate.
3- Give him a card listing at least three things you genuinely appreciate about him. For the entire day, or longer, refrain from complaining, nagging or giving him the evil eye. Feel free to genuinely compliment and praise him throughout the day. Remind him (and yourself) what you love and value about him.
